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We have been together for nearly 5 years, but I am finding its harder and harder to be attracted to him. He says he cares about the way he looks but frequently he wont even look in the mirror before leaving the house and will often not notice the bed hair wing at the back. He doesn't care what he wears to the point of wearing around the house cheap track pants he has had since he was about 15 (hes nearly 25). We both have gym memberships but her refuses to go and instead will diet for a few weeks and loose weight but that just leaves him thin and washed out.
I really try to help him but it rarely works for long.
He also barely pays attention to me intimately other than the odd platonic cuddle. It really ruins my selfconfidence that no matter what I do or wear he doesn't care. I've tried to indulge fantasies or anything that will help but he's not interested. I know I am attractive I am still young and fit and all that and I still draw looks.
I know he loves me madly and we are thoroughly compatible as people but without the physical it sounds like a friendship to me.
He's very high maintenance and I am happy to keep him but I just feel like I get nothing back other that flat out companionship, unfortunately its the kind I could get from anyone.

I suppose the question is do I hang on and try to help him become the person he says he wants to be and a person I can have a physical relationship with or do I throw it in and risk trying to find someone else.

Please no nasty comments this is a genuine question. Please remember at 24 the physical relationship IS actually important to maintain and not inevitable to fade its inevitable to dull but not disappear.

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i really wanna loose weight…quickly !! not particularly healthily just quickly…tips please x x

I'm former ana still pro ana… mid relapse
i have a party next weekend
possible wieght loss tips tricks diets
ANYTHING
also im buddys msn and yahoo although yahoo is prefered for this
help please

I'm an 18 year old male and in the last year I've gained almost 70 pounds (I'm now 250 lbs). I used to be an extremely active person, playing basketball, was a lifeguard at the YMCA, ran every day, and other activities but this past year I've fell into a huge depression which has caused me to be slothful and not watch what I'm eating. I've gained all this weight in one year. Looking at myself in the mirror literally makes me cry, yes I'm a guy but to see what I was and then to see me how I am now I can't help but start tearing up. I have horrible stretch marks on my WHOLE body (stomach, armpits, arms, back, legs, etc) and I know they will never go away. Even if I did loose weight my skin is beyond repair. I will always have the stretch marks on my whole body and my skin will be loose and cottage-cheesy and lumpy, especially on my stomach. Having the contrast of knowing how I was and how I am now is heartbreaking and I know that there's nothing I can do to change what I've done with my body and it will never be the same. My skin is forever ruined and I won't be able to swim (the only thing I really loved doing) without a shirt because of the loose, grainy skin I will develop from weight loss. It seems hopeless, I will have to live the rest of my life remembering 1 year of my life in which everything fell apart from depression. I've seen the pictures of people from weight loss, it's not pretty and being fat isn't much worse. I'm only 18, and my physical life is ruined and my skin will be disgusting for the rest of my life.

I just want to give up. Why should I even loose weight . . . there's no point.

I'm an 18 year old male and in the last year I've gained almost 70 pounds (I'm not 250 lbs). I used to be an extremely active person, playing basketball, was a lifeguard at the YMCA, ran every day, and other activities but this past year I've fell into a huge depression which has caused me to be slothful and not watch what I'm eating. I've gained all this weight in one year. Looking at myself in the mirror literally makes me cry, yes I'm a guy but to see what I was and then to see me how I am now I can't help but start tearing up. I have horrible stretch marks on my WHOLE body (stomach, armpits, arms, back, legs, etc) and I know they will never go away. Even if I did loose weight my skin is beyond repair. I will always have the stretch marks on my whole body and my skin will be loose and cottage-cheesy and lumpy, especially on my stomach. Having the contrast of knowing how I was and how I am now is heartbreaking and I know that there's nothing I can do to change what I've done with my body and it will never be the same. My skin is forever ruined and I won't be able to swim (the only thing I really loved doing) without a shirt because of the loose, grainy skin I will develop from weight loss. It seems hopeless, I will have to live the rest of my life remembering 1 year of my life in which everything fell apart from depression. I've seen the pictures of people from weight loss, it's not pretty and being fat isn't much worse. I'm only 18, and my physical life is ruined and my skin will be disgusting for the rest of my life.

I just want to give up. Why should I even loose weight . . . there's no point.

okay, so i have been struggling for months now trying to loose weight fast.
preferably on the inner high things.
I know, not eating will lead to weight gain and stuff up your metabolism
so i was wondering..
would it work if i was to eat, a big healthy breakfast each day drink lots of water and eat 2 small meals during the day and afternoon, then no dinner..
would i lose weight?

please helppp xox

I am 16 and weigh 130 pounds, 5'7. I am trying a diet I pretty much made up on my own observations. Today I ate a special k meal replacement bar (180 cal), a dannon light strawberry & banana smoothie (70 cal), cinnamon snack (90 cal), a sandwich with celery and peanut butter as a side and now just half of a lunchable (obviously not eating the ham and cookies). I would like to know if that is way too much to loose weight on? I haven't eaten dinner yet but i will be having meatloaf with brown rice and brocoli. My cousin is eating way less than me a day, shes 5'0 and 125. I would like to know if im still eating too much and also if he method of eating almost nothing a day or my method of eating small portions frequently is better? Im sorry this is so long i just want to get the facts out there. Thank you !

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I want to do a 30 minute workout everyday. I want to do things that will burn lots of calories and tone my legs butt and stomach. I need something that i can do in my bedroom without a lot of fancy equipment. I can't join a gym because I am not old enough, and I don't want to spend thousands on home gym equipment don't have room for. Can someone give me a daily workout schedule that will help me loose weight with my dieting. Please tell me roughly how many calories this will burn too.Thanks and any tips for weight loss are helpful too!

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I've been watching videos and stuff on Youtube about loose skin removal surgury, and all of the people in the videos seem to be middle aged.

I was just wondering if young people, like 18, 19, 20 … do they have the same loose skin problem? I only ask because I know younger skin has more elasticity …

Im 13 weigh 145 pounds and wear 16 huskys, I am constantly not being able to fit into jeans so we buy new ones! But i for some time now have been trying to loose weight! But when i go outside to execise theres nothing to do, I have no brothers or sisters to play with and my friends live farther away! If theres and tips on how i should go about at least trimming some fat off my stomach and thighs then id really appreciate it! ALso obeciety runs in my family!