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Getting over my awkwardness around people?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Getting over my awkwardness around people?

My whole life I've had problems with being awkward around people. When I was younger, I was the weird girl that didn't talk to anyone and dressed funny, the one everyone made fun of. Now at 17, I've changed a lot and have some friends, but not many. I still have cannot seem to get over my awkwardness around people, even my friends. I talk a lot more, smile, and am an attractive person, but every conversation I have ends up being awkward in some way. A lot of people still think of me as that weird girl, so instead I stick to staying at home by myself.

How can I overcome this?

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2 Comments for this entry

  • miley cyrus
    March 15th, 2010 on 9:32 pm

    Sounds like shyness really and its hard to get over that but also remember you probably magnify everything so what you think is really awkward other people will hardly notice.If you know you are going to be in a social situation have a think about what you can talk about first show interest in what's going on in other peoples lives (people love to talk about themselves lol) and if all else fails compliment them on hair/new shoes whatever, when you flatter people they become much more open and warm to you.Above all relax if you are relaxed people around you will relax and things flow much more easily it will take time but comes with age I promise you.

  • taylor lautner
    March 15th, 2010 on 9:32 pm

    It really sounds to me.. You have made many new improvements to yourself and that is great.. but b/c of your earlier years.. and the treatment you received by other kids. U had a lack of self esteem.. U are gaining more and more.. just hang in there.. U have a right to be different..it says a lot about you.. so don't try to go fitting in.. Conversations? well, U need to be a bit more specific.. in what way.. like U say the wrong thingsperhaps, it will just take more time.. Are U an intelligent person who can keep a conversation going.. There is nothing wrong w/ sticking to be by Ur self unless U are just lonely for companionship, wanta date .. look around you when ur out side or in the lunch room .. see who else is alone.. approach them.. to hang out with.. they will understand more than anyone will.. good luck..

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