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many ups and down me and my bf have had. he has some trust issues with me and well i can't blame him i have hurt him in the past.. i have not cheated on him but have kissed three other people… he feels like he should do the same thing and he's asked me if i'd like to do it with him cuz i've kissed girls… i would like to but not really beacause of the fact i love him sooo much and i'd rather him leave and do his thang than stay with me and not feel like he can do what he wants.. but i dont want to see him go, i really truly love this guy but i feel like he is just moving farther and farther out of my life. He loves me too but to me it seems like he rather be single than mess around with me anymore just cause of the fact he seems more hurt than enjoying his time spent with me. he gets angry about the most littlest things… not seting the alarm right, me being a lil clutsy, but i give him all my love and everything he can imagine to want that would bring him joy… but he constantly has pain of my wrong doings and when that happens i feel like he's going to leave and want to be with other people

why do i think he wants to leave so much… he is young but i dont know how to think of him wanting all of that when he is with me telling me i love you one second then waking up to a bad dream of me cheating on him and wanting to break up with me, we have been together for four years going on five in december… do all guys want to be single in their 20's??? are most single????

I'm 17 years old and will be turning 18 this September. I was held back a grade when I was very young, so that now, instead of graduating this year, I am graduating next year. The love of my life has left me, and will be moving away in September for school. I have to wait exactly 1 year and 4 months before I graduate. I am going to the same school as him after that.
He has left me, and yet he tells me he loves me and wants to see me, but it only seems like he does so when he feels like it. I feel that now I have turned into somewhat of a 'booty call' for him, because we are still sexually engaging with one another (I know, it's wrong. I can't seem to stay away from him.), and act as though we are dating, but he seems to be doing so without having to go through any commitment. He refuses to 'date me' again…Either way, I'm very unhappy in my city, I'm very unhappy with school and most of my friends and I hardly talk anymore…Mainly because they're all busy, and I'm extremely depressed. I'm depressed to the point now where I come home from school everyday, not bother with my homework (which is scary, because I am an honours student…Or was…) and then take sleeping pills or gravol to sleep till the next day. I know I should talk to someone, but I don't have the money myself and no one will help me. They want me to fix my problems on my own….
So my idea of fixing everything, is making it go by as fast as possible. What is a good way to make time fly by faster? As fast as it possibly can. I'm looking for a job, not getting one. Does ANYONE have any idea's? What would you do?

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I know of a guy who is a registered sex offender that is living with his girlfriend, new baby, and girlfriend's young daughter. I looked him up on the Megan's Law website and saw that the address listed for him is not where he actually lives. I am concerned about the safety of kids in that neighborhood as well as the girlfriend's young daughter. Should I call We Tip? Some people are telling me not to get involved. It could break up their family and they just had a new baby. So he would be possibly put back in prison and away from them. I know the right thing to do is to call We Tip. Should I stay out of it or call?

Hello.

Im 14, and lately ive been feeling the urge to eat a lot more than i did about a year ago, i dont know if its bordom or what, but i just dont stop!
its more snacks not dinner, i dont eat a lot of dinner, i just like the fatty foods!

ive never been fat, like round, i was chubby when i was a baby, i dont really class myself as chubby now, i mean i have big hips but when i go to liquid and young nightclubs i feel so stupid like im fatter than all the other girls there?

i go gym often, about 4-5 times a fortnight, thats all i can manage to do, because im busy at home, helping my mum.

i just need some tips like how to stay fit + healthy at home, so i dont get any bigger, and maybe loose the extra's i have that i dont want (basically the fat on my legs and a bit on my belly now).

you might think im stupid because im worrying like this, but i hate feeling stupid around other girls, i mean ive very tall, and i hate that because i class myself as lanky, i just want to fit in with the other girls.

please help me? x

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Let me start off by saying I am a sophomore. he is a senior.

I started talking to him in November, at first I thought he was a little weird but he grew on me, and by December we were talking out of school 6+ times a week, almost always initiated by him, and by Christmas I had a pretty big thing for him, and the more time we talked the better things got. I didn't like that his last girlfriend was 23, and from halfway across the globe, and they dated when he was 17 (he is 18 now), but I figured he is young, and she pulled him in and that it wasn't his fault and she screwed him over. We even had a dateish thing at the end of January, where on a half day he drove me home, I made him lunch and we watched across the universe, and he stayed for 5 hours and still didn't want to leave! It was so cute, and I was sure soon enough we might be official, I wasn't totally obsessed with him, but I am one of those cute but relationship challenged girls, and it made me excited something was actually going right.

So about two weeks ago (snow day) I get a text from asking if I'm up, I joke saying no, I'm texting you in my sleep, thinking it will be one of our stupid and silly convo's again, and he said we need to talk, and it might make things awkward. I tell him to go on, and he asks me if I like him more than a friend, I say right now I just consider us friends, but I would not object if something more were to come out of it. I then flip the question on him, and he said yes, he is into me but I am so young, so he resists his urges, right now we should just be friends, but it would be really nice if something were to come out of it in the future. I say the age thing would have never crossed my mind (18 and almost 16) but the possibility of a future will drive me insane, and I just wish I knew what he was thinking. He says the he is trying to heal over his ex, and right now he just wants sex, and he would just take advantage of me, and he respects me. All in 2 sentances. So I say I appreciate his honesty, and he is right, we should just be friends. He then goes on how he fell in love with his ex, and all he needs is time, time to heal. I mean come on, you went out with her for two months, she lives halfway across the world, and I get she was your first but you BROKE UP 3 MONTHS AGO, BE A MAN AND GET OVER IT. So I put that into nicer terms and say you really have a lot to figure out, and you need to move on with your life. He texts me later that night to apologize for hurting me, and I say you didn't, so there is no need to apologize.

So ever since then I have been ignoring him in school, and he imed me on VALENTINES DAY but I ignored that as well. I feel bad ignoring him but at the same time I feel deceived, everyone around me thought I was way too good for him in every aspect, but that didn't matter because I thought he was the sweetest guy ever and I felt what I was "sold on", wasn't the truth at all. And I get sex is what 95% of guys beetween the ages 0f 13-21 are looking for, and I am not a complete prude, but I mean to say all I want is sex straight out to a girl you have only talked to for a few months strikes me as kind of odd to be honest. Do you think I am being a beotch for ignoring him, or am I doing the right thing?

_Yes I posted this yesterday, but I was asked for more info and for it to be more organized so, TADA!

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As I continue sliding down the hill the pain grows worst. Both my goggles and skis flew off my body before I hit the ground. I try digging my nails down into the ground to stop myself from going any further, but I only break my nails in the process. Then I notice, I can't see a thing! I want to wipe all the tears out of my eyes but I know it's not the tears blocking my sight, it's blood. My skis must have hit my face before hitting the ground, causing the blood to fall into my eyes. I can't think of anything worst then this, it seems like i've been hopelessly sliding down for hours without help. Then I stop, the only thing left to do is lay there, not moving a muscle, and wait, just wait. After a few more moments pass by someone finally picks me up, the rest is a blur.
The room is dark, I want to get up, but it looks like i've been strapped onto a stretcher. I look around but fail to see anything. I wonder if its the blood blocking my sight, but I prove myself wrong with a see a light coming from under the main door. A few minutes past untill I hear a knock on the door. Not knowing if I should answer I simply lay there. Finally someone comes into the room, it's a middle aged man wearing a white lap coat, and holding a clipboard while scribbling something on a piece of paper.
"Looks like you had a pretty bad fall," he pauses takes a breath of air and continues. "Sadly, your results are even worst. You need surgery, afterwards life won't be so easy it's looks like you have to give up your Olympic dream."
I want to shout "NO" but I can only let out a cry. I was so close yet so far away. Now I don't even get a secound chance…
I wake up from someone tugging on me. I noctice it's coach Ryan.
"You were screaming, what the hell happened."
I remain speechless as I look around the room.
"Surprised you can see huh? Just blood, but it's gone."
I fake a smile and nod, noticing how different the room looked in my dream. It was just a dream I repeat in my head trying to calm myself down.
Then someone lightly knocks on the door, just like in my dream. I somewhat excepted the same male doctor to come in, my instead it a young female nurse.
"Kim Venn, surprise seeing you here, I thought you were going stay at the Olympics to celebr…" She pauses when coach Ryan pulls her aside and wispers something into her ear.
I knew it was something about me, but what could it be? I was just about to ask what was going on, but the nurse returned to my bedside and said..
"Anyway, I have good and slightly bad news. It turns out a rare snake bit you and injected it's venom into you. If you came in right when it happened we would take out the venom and you would be good to go. Since you waited a week to tell us, the process with be a bit harder. But don't freak out you'll be back to normal in no time, it will just hurt a bit more, and take two days to recover. Now the bad news, the venom seems to spread through most of your body that we may not be able to get out. Meaning you will get sudden pains through out your body, but not enough to knock you off your feet. Your very lucky Kim Venn, you may not feel so lucky right now, but talk to your coach and then we will see you doing the happy dance."
She leaves with a smile on her face and says Dr. Uvlect will be with me in just a moment, she also adds in that they numbed up my leg to stop the pain. But the only thing I could think of is what Coach is about to tell me. I have a feeling it has to do with me, and the Olympics…..

the final part is still to come and then im done!

lets try and make this as short as i ca.

mom met man in the summer we moved in with him is september. ever since she spends every moment with him leave with him right when they get up comes home hours and hours later then eats dinner helps younger siblings with homework then goes into her room with him for the rest of the night locks doors and does nothing but be with him.. im 19 years old with a child of my own we dont live with him anymore since recently they got into a huge fight and he kicked us out once again but this time my mom stuck to going back to our house but they are still together. and its the same thing anyways as if they lived together. well ever since my mom met this man they drink almost everyday they drink then skip a night then drink i hate it and he always talks down on me to my mom saying im wrong because im stopping her fun they drink and drive have gotton into so much trouble and for christ sake she has 7 children all of which in cluding me and im the oldest. she acts as if i dont exsist even has kicked me out because i hate this man…and i tend to get angry when she does allof this. she says im wrong im 19 years old and she wont give up her happiness for me bacaause i wont be here with her forever.

me and her recently got into a horrible fight she said that when i hit her boyfriend he should have pressed charges on me even though after i hit him he grabbed me by the throat and choked me and the resson i hit him was because he kicked us out of his house called my famiy all sorts of things my son a spick and so on and she like resents me for that but it dont matter that he choked me i was wrong and she would have done the same thing.. and she pushed me around in hopes i would get up and fight back with her which i would never i love her and would not want to ever hurt her. she said im the one tearing apart mind and her realtions ship im sorry if all does not make sense but try to understand what i must feel like.. am i right wrong should i stay or should i go and just let her be happy i know she doesnt want me here anymore shes already told me this

OK. i really need some advise. I am a 28 year old male. People say i am attractive. I am however very shy because of the way i speak. I talk very proper and like i am in a business environment. People are starting to say I am gay because of the way i carry myself. The truth is that I never hung in the streets much when i was younger. I stayed home and read or watch tv. I have a job as a janitor and many of the people treat me like crap and try to put me down. How can i go about loosening up and fitting in and have some friends. It seems like on one understands me. Sometimes i feel like giving up. Has anyone been through this can anyone give me some advise please

we have been together for 5 years and have a 2 year old little boy. Between having a baby at a young age, and having financial difficulties I am usually too stressed to even care about sex, and this has caused a rift in our relationship. He thinks that only better sex will save our relationship, but it goes way deeper then that; he still parties and gets way too drunk if he goes out, he doesnt show much interest in being a dad other than when its convenient to him, he spends money that we dont have using MY credit cards on stupid things like baseball equipment and tools that stay in the basement.

I have huge issues with these things and believe that they need to be addressed before anything because to me in order to have a loving relationship and good sex, you gotta actually like the guy, right?!?!

I have left him twice and gone to my parents house for a short while only to compromise that we will work on things, but nothing will please him. just sex. thats it. thats what will fix everything. sex.

I also cant stand his parents, we live in the same town as them (we are 4 hours away from my parents) they are alcoholic chainsmoking swingers who have told me to my face that they will never babysit their grandchild because they 'have a life'….

I just dont know what to do anymore!

Hi all, we are looking at spending a few days at Miami Beach Florida in October 2010, but we will have our 18 month old baby with us, is it wise to take her there or is it just a young party go-ers place? Is there much to do there that will include her? We are from Australia and don't know a real lot about the place thats all. Any suggestions as where to stay that will be suitable and not cost a fortune? Thanks!