BEFORE I SAY ANYTHING ELSE, YOU MUST KNOW THAT WE USED A CONDOM AND IT BROKE, SO I TOOK PLAN B THE NEXT DAY…AND I STILL BECAME PREGNANT. I DO NOT SLEEP AROUND.

I need to vent. I really need some advice or POSITIVE opinions about my sticky situation. I'm 23 years old. Have a good job and go to school. I moved back home in November to be with my mom since my she and my dad decided to split up. This was a total shock to me, and my sister and I took it pretty hard.

I was dating Chris for 2 years when this all happened. He held me for hours while I broke down, many times. He was The One for me. I love him more than anything. The problem began when I seriously became a different person. I felt numb and didnt know how to handle it. I broke up with him because I couldnt remember the good times.

I started partying a lot. December is a blurr to me. I would go out every single night to drink, and dance. I had trouble sleeping and stayed up until 5am, even if I was just watching tv. I stopped going to school, wasnt eating, and became depressed. I would see Chris out sometimes, but would just walk the other way. I have no idea why.

Aaron came home from Afghanistan around this time. He was my high school sweetheart. I met him when he was 13 and I was 14 and we were on and off for years. He's changed a lot though. He smokes, and drinks, and is really irresponsible. But of course, I still loved him, in a different kind of way.

I'm now almost 4 months PREGNANT with Aaron's child.

Chris took this pretty hard. His family did, my family did. It's been a huge mess. Aaron hasnt really been involved, because he went back to Afghanistan and will be home for good next month. However, I live in Indiana…and he's stationed in North Carolina until November 2011. He keeps telling me that he's young and just wants to have fun still. He doesnt want a relationship. But he does want to be "the best dad he can be."

Chris and I are seeing each other, sort of. We talk every single day, go out, do things…just like a normal couple. He understands the situation and has been my main support. He noticed my baby bump yesterday for the first time. I felt kinda embarrassed, but he pulled me close, told me I was beautiful, and kissed me.

Aaron has been a jackass. (Currently we are getting along ok…but he's made these last few months Hell.) He wanted me to get an abortion…then was pushing adoption..and now who knows what. He is emotionally unstable, since he's bipolar and not on medication..so he freaks out over everything.

I'm having a hard time deciding what to do. Maybe adoption is the best thing to do..? But I've always wanted children, and I KNOW I'd be a great mother. I believe in the old fashioned way of parenting, and I'm DONE partying. My heart wants to raise my first born child.

I'm in therapy, and back in school. I just have no idea what's going to happen when Aaron gets home and how our future will be. OR even what the future holds with Chris and I.

My baby is due September 7th, a day before Aaron and I met 9 years ago. His family is supportive. My family is too…but I still feel embarrassed by this whole thing. It's not the life I wanted. Chris and I were supposed to get married and have children.

Now what…?

He has twin sisters that are 2 years younger, identical twins, and also last year his parents split. He has to stay with his mom because his dad lives like 40 mins away because of work. He is obviously depressed, his sisters r very sweet, they don't mean to but in things like choosing what to eat, movies, where to go, etc. they always gang up on him. His mom goes to the bar like 4 times a week on school nights and completely drops everything, and on saturday and sunday he gets to be with his dad.

He finds dorky things that he likes to do like: TP, make duct tape wallets, play PS3. His mom takes all of those away, like last night they were over and he was making duct tape wallets and stuff and she said that he had to stop because he was obsessed. She said the same thing about TPing, like my mom took him and some other friends TPing and then his mom said non of that for a while because he was getting obsessed. He never gets to play the PS3 because she thinks that he will get obsessed with it. He has started watching "Online videos" of "" content…. and all of our guy friends have to watch it with him and hate it. It is only because his mom takes everything else away, this is the only thing that he can keep secret from her…. but not for long.

Please, i need to talk to him, we are all afraid that he will commit suicide in the future, he even said that all that was keeping him alive was his pets and looking forward to seeing his dad…(he thinks his mom is a good mom)

Okie so im auditioning for either cube, ts, or leeyeon entertainment but there is no helpful information whenever i try to look for somehting, go figure . Im not auditioning for the bigger ones cause you have to wait more… Anyways i have a few questions that i hope you guys can answer. Please and advanced thank you.

1. Can i audition in a group?
2. How can we audition, like whats the best way if your in america?
3. Is 13-14 too young for auditions???
4. If we audition by mail or in front or whatever how long do we have to wait???
5. If we do a walk-in audition do they give us an application there to fill out then audition or what???
6. If we make the audition will we have to train in korea or can we train in america???
7. What is leeyeon and cube entertainments website and address,
8. Me and my friends are korean and we can only speak it a bit, we can't read or write. Will they send us to an international school if we can't stay in america???
9. When are the open audition days/times? We're auditioning during summer and we have a tight schedule.
10. This is kinda weird to ask but what song do you reccommend for 4-5 girls auditioning??? We need one with rap.

Someone please hep me. and advanced thank you =]

Ok so I want to go onto a diet im 15 and I NEED to lose weight for my rugby if i don't im screwed. So how do I explain to her that I need to lose weight, all she says is u to young and u a growing boy, its not like I want to stay on a diet for ever just to lose a bit of weight.

I've never in my life thought that I would have the privilege of owning not 1 but three cats. The mother cat came in early November of 2009. My guest the mother was interviewing us to see where she would reside in a loving and God-fearing environment. The mother cat continued to come more often and then out from nowhere she had to kittens that followed behind. The kittens where really cute for stray cats. The neighbors asked at first, if indeed we were the owners of the cats we said, no. As time went on they continue to receive food from people in the neighborhood who were pleased to feed them and hold a positive rapport towards them. Even though they received so much humble responses from the neighbors they still wanted to come to our home. The mother cat started coming for 2 weeks followed by the kittens who came in the third week of November. The family enjoyed the cats so that they became a new addition to our household. Two months went passed and the mother cat gave birth to 7 kittens. Quite naturally, both the oldest cats were jealous. The oldest cat which is the son was shockingly jealous of the new arrivals and would come over and try to smoother the baby kittens. The youngest baby girl kitten just kept her distance and stayed away. We were so afraid for the baby kittens that we sent the both of the main two kittens out 2 to 3 days. We last saw the oldest kitten on Wednesday night expecting to see him and the youngest girl kitten Thursday morning. When I open the back door to the yard, I yelled out for the 2 mature kittens to come in, but only saw 1 which was the youngest girl kitten. This is really not like the oldest male kitten to run away, he was always protective of the youngest girl kitten and they played numerous times around the house and were really tight. The oldest male kitten would never leave the youngest girl kitten alone by herself. I would really like to know what happened to him and will he come back to us. We miss him very dearly and the cats are moaning and upset night and day. Is the male kitten still in the neighborhood?

He was with one of his sister's friends and his sister in a car they were driving to a party in which he stayed for 5 hours. He didn't talk to me all night until he was on his way to his hotel. I called many many times and left many messages that night I could not feel any less proud of what was happening at that time really.

Why do you think he laughed when I asked who was the person that him and his sister was with in the car? He laughed as if he was nervous

Be honest what you think because when I was young (really young) when my mother was mad at me I laughed because I was nervous at the situation, because, I was immature not that I was planning to hurt her feelings. SO I realise sometimes people have odd reactions to some situations. I was wondering if he was closer to her than I think though.

Sometimes Ihave wondered if he's gay because of how close he is with his sister that just really stretched the fact that I am questioning how attracted to this person I can be.

I've never in my life thought that I would have the privilege of owning not 1 but three cats. The mother cat came in early November of 2009. My guest the mother was interviewing us to see where she would reside in a loving and God-fearing environment. The mother cat continued to come more often and then out from nowhere she had to kittens that followed behind. The kittens where really cute for stray cats. The neighbors asked at first, if indeed we were the owners of the cats we said, no. As time went on they continue to receive food from people in the neighborhood who were pleased to feed them and hold a positive rapport towards them. Even though they received so much humble responses from the neighbors they still wanted to come to our home. The mother cat started coming for 2 weeks followed by the kittens who came in the third week of November. The family enjoyed the cats so, that they became a new addition to our household. Two months went passed and the mother cat gave birth to 7 kittens. Quite naturally, both the oldest cats were jealous. The oldest cat which is the son was shockingly jealous of the new arrivals and would come over and try to smoother the baby kittens. The youngest baby girl kitten just kept her distance and stayed away. We were so afraid for the baby kittens that we sent the both of the main two kittens out 2 to 3 days. We last saw the oldest kitten on Wednesday night expecting to see him and the youngest girl kitten Thursday morning. When I opened the back door to the yard, I yelled out for the 2 mature kittens to come in, but only saw 1 which was the youngest girl kitten. This is really not like the oldest male kitten to run away, he was always protective of the youngest girl kitten and they played numerous times around the house and were really tight. The oldest male kitten would never leave the youngest girl kitten alone. I would really like to know what happened to him and will he come back to us. We miss him very dearly and the cats are moaning and upset night and day. Is the male kitten still in the neighborhood?

I'll try to keep it short. I met my husband over seas 3 years ago. I filed a temporary Visa 4 him to come to my Country and we were married soon after- going on a year and a half.

Our Marriage has some ups and alot of downs!!! My Husband likes to talk to women on the internet- via Instant Messaging and Tagged. My husband tells the brutal truth and does not consider my feelings. He is selfish, self centered, and likes material things. Found out my Husband cheated on me while we were engaged. My husband was going over to woman's house while I was pregnant. He expected me to work Full-time, pay all the bills, while I was pregnant (during the time he was going over some woman's house- and yes we were married @ this time), and do all the household chores, while he was unemployed.

With all those bad things said- he has some good qualities- He couldn't work until he received a work permit. We have the same view on success, children, and work. I can be myself around him. I became comfortable in this little time I've known him.

He just started working @ the end of November and asked if I could file a visa for his son, let's name him "Ty" (who lives outside of my country) to visit us 4 Christmas 4 three weeks. I have a 12 year outside of the marriage, @ the time our son was 5 months and his son is 5.

My husband told me the type of papers to fill out- and I did. He paid 4 the Visa (and medical/passport) he just needed me, a citizen to sign the papers. As the story is told to me…. When the baby mother takes Ty to the airport, Customs tells her, that her 5 year old son, will have to stay in my country for 3 months- or Ty will not be able to travel back and forth between countries. I was fine with that- so I began to look into a school for Ty to attend. Then thought… If my Husband was wrong on the type of Visa maybe I need to look into this myself. I found out, that we have to file for Permanent Residency within 3 months and Ty cannot leave my Country until we receive his Green Card (a 6-8 month process depending on processing times). Well, sorry to say, after thinking about this for a day, I cannot take care of three children (includes one that does not listen to me) and go to work (Full-Time job), expected to keep the house clean everyday, cook dinner, basically everything u can think of, that a Single Parent would do, as my husband works 6 days a week (from 10 a.m. to 11 p.m.) and may bring home $700 every two weeks. So, that means his unable to help me in watching 3 children- and he wants to go hang with his friends in his free time. And I could not understand how a Mother could allow their young child to leave the country for so long.

I suggested that we file the correct Visa for him- The Visitors Visa- and found all the paperwork and costs that goes along with it. This was our original plan. My Husband wanted Ty to visit and then live with us when he's older if the Baby Mother and my Husband agreed to this.

So of course, My Husband and the Baby Mother was upset with me and said I don't like Ty- and so many other things…. I could go on and on but this was suppose to be short.

After a week or so, my Husband apologizes about what he said, says he understands that taking care of everything will all be on me (and My Mom who watches my baby, and older son after school for no charge while I work Full-Time). And my Husband noticed Ty is a handful when he took Ty to work with him for 3 days.

That was Christmas time and now it's almost Easter, right! So it came back up again today in an argument. He tells me, I'm no good because I ran his son away and that's what he told all of his family- that I'm no Good and not to talk to me. But yet, he stays in my apartment, doesn't pay rent, only pays 2 Utilities and Cable and the 8 Parking tickets he got on my car. Oh, and drives my car everyday to work but feels I'm No Good. Funny.

Added Info: I've been looking into a divorce for the last 6 months- and I will File just not sure when! Just would like to hear your opinions- Either way I'm still filing for Divorce.

My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up recently. He revealed to me it's because while he loves me, he never felt like I was "the one" (which I did; he definitely makes me feel more complete and very happy, all that good stuff) and he wants to date other people. He already went on a date with another girl, although he admitted he's not sure where this is going since it was only one date.

We mutually agreed that we do not want this friendship to end – we're too close to give up our friendship, which is strong enough to deal with this. Trust me, I'm a little broken hearted, but I also understand my life will go on.

But the irrational love-sick part of my brain is still turning this over in my head – especially because some of our friends have compared us to two 'Scrubs' characters who dated, stopped dating, dated, broke up again, spent years dating other people, and yet still ended up together in the end despite everything in the last season. (Yes, I know: it's a TV show.)

I guess I'm trying to gauge the situation. He's 21 and I 20, so obviously, we're still pretty young and the future is open. His life isn't quite on track schooling wise, but he's working on things; I've always wondered if this had some impact on our relationship. I understand his emotions cannot be controlled, the same way mine can't.

I'm going to continue to cry here and there, and stay open to dating. I guess I'm asking what you guys think based on what you've seen in your life – could he change his mind, especially considering we did once break up before getting together again (due to his not being sure he loved me at all)?

I'm not looking for a reason to cling to the past or get rid of him. I'm looking for stories and input.

Hey. I grew up under the watchful eyes of two larger-than-life, dominant parents.
My dad would admit to anyone that he had made wrong choices in his life – he was in a job he hated, had ignored his own desire to get educated when he was young – but God help anyone who tried to tell HIM that! He also had to be obeyed: one of my mother's favourite phrases was 'wait till your Dad gets home…'

She wasn't safe herself, though – he went out with his friends when he wanted, and it was just a given that he wouldn't give that up even when he knew it made her unhappy. She went out for solitary walks, cried in private, but she could never get up the courage to say 'What you're doing hurts me.' She also thought she had no alternative but to stay and accept it.

Now, I feel acute fear when I feel like I might start crying/getting angry in public. I feel like I'm losing control of myself if I go ahead and do it. I feel like people don't want to see that kind of thing. When my husband does something I don't like, instead of saying 'I don't like that,' I'll just keep it all inside, as if it's fine, but then my anger will erupt later, or I'll bring it up to him a week later over some totally unrelated thing, when he's forgotten all about the previous situation!

I feel like I'm crazy. Does anyone think it sounds like I've learned this? How might I go about relearning the behaviour? It's got to the stage where I can actually feel myself wanting to tell exactly how I feel, but just missing it, turning the other way and internalising it. It's almost as if I'm CHOOSING to go the bitter and twisted way. Can anyone help me? Thanks in advance.