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This is a question for people who care about this!?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

This is a question for people who care about this!?

(Sorry if this is in the wrong category.) Okay, so far, I have been seeing some pretty weird things around my house. It was around 7:00 PM, and I was going to the kitchen to get a snack. ( Which really annoys me because I have to walk ALL the way). And then, I went back to my room and looked quickly at my closet and realized it was open. Before I closed it, I saw a ghostly figure. It was a young man in a suit. He quickly faded away. I was thinking that this was crazy. The next day, my mom and dad were away because they went for groceries, so that left me my sister, my dog, and me. When the doorbell rang, I rushed to the door and found an old lady that was short and she was wearing a dress. Just like the man, she quickly faded away. And then last week, I was at Church, and it was pretty annoying because all of the bright lights. I looked away and I saw an old lady in a wrap. This time, she stayed there. It was pretty far away, but I saw her just standing there. I know it was just the lights, so that's not special. What does this mean? Thanks for reading it I know it's kind of long. Help!!!
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Should i got with my dad or stay here?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Should i got with my dad or stay here?

I can't make up my mind between moving with my dad in Colorado or staying here to live with my mom and siblings. My mom really needs me and i help her all that i can but she puts a lot of pressure on me and i feel i have to much responsibility for a 15 year old. I've tried to talk to her but she doesn't understand me ,and me and her have never been very close to each other. My brother and sister are young and my mom is single mother so she has to work her butt of for us and that leaves me to watch and take care of my younger siblings. I'm constantly stressed out and i can't focus at school anymore. Because of my 24 hour babysitting job i have no social life and i've tried to hang out with my friends but i can only stay for like 2 hours and even with that i get yelled at because my mom thinks I'm putting my friends over family. I like to be alone and i love my privacy and i don't get that here. Also my friends are also keeping me here. There is this guy i like a ton! and me and him are really close. he wants me to stay but i have to think of whats better for me and i can't. My dad is moving into a bigger house and he lives in Colorado (i love Colorado) I'm going to move there after i graduate but i don't know if i can wait that long anymore. I lived in Colorado for two years when i was 8 and 9 because my mom couldn't handle us 3 kids. So i wont have any friends if i go there. But I'll have a room of my own, I'll have less stress and responsibility, and i may be able to actually have a social life. I've lived this way for years and i can't take it anymore. I guess i was just waiting for something to change, for something to make me really want to stay.Should i stay and help my mom or should i got to Colorado with my dad?
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How can I have some fun while visting my protective sister at college?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

How can I have some fun while visting my protective sister at college?

This coming weekend I will be staying with my older sister in her dorm room at college. I will be staying for the entire weekend and into the week. My sister is a bit more….how could i put this…morally sound. She said she would take me to a frat party just to show me how stupid they are. She's not big on partying and drinking. I on the other hand, I do drink a little bit and like to have fun. My sister said she is not going to let me out of her sight. I want to go to this frat party…never been to one…and have a good time. Is there any way you think i will be able to get around my sister?? I also don't want to seem just like some stupid little kid to all her college friends. I'm 17 for christ sake…I'm not that young. I know she will keep me on a short leash. I want to maybe meet a guy or something..idk. I'm just sick of the ones around here. Sooo how can i not just seem like my sister's younger sibling?? I'm more than that. Can you guys think of any ideas how i will be able to get around my sister and have some fun while im at college??
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I have a question about child molestation..?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

I have a question about child molestation..?

When I was younger…maybe 5, I used to stay at my aunt's house during the day. I would hang out with my cousins (boy and girls). My male cousin (he was in his teens) payed a lot of attention to me….he would make me go into his room and play with him. He would show me is private area and sometimes make me touch it. I don't remember him ever touching me. Would this be molestation?
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how can i handle my step daughter?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

How can i handle my step daughter?

i have this stepdaughter she is 2 yrs old her mother lets her get away with everything when i say everything i mean everything.. when she comes to stay with her dad she thinks she can do the same thing when shes with her mom but its not happening when her dad goes to work or to the store she does not went to listen to me my husband tells me to spank her, the thing is her mom does not like me whatsoever so im afraid if i do spank her the mother wont let the child come over again she will keep the baby from her father i know this because she kept her from my husband before for marrying me…. what would you do if u was me please help thanks much…… i also have 2 other kids n im pregnant due in august n i dont want my youngest which is one to learn from her…
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Why do people adopt political views based on wishful thinking rather than logic?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Why do people adopt political views based on wishful thinking rather than logic?

I have noticed that there are a large number of people who tend to base their beliefs on what they wish were true rather than what actually is true. This is particularly common in people's views on economic issues.

A classic example of a policy based upon wishful thinking is the minimum wage. The minimum wage is a law which outlaws all jobs that pay between 1 cent and the minimum wage (jobs that pay $0.00 are called "volunteering" and are usually glorified by the same politicians who support minimum wage laws). The result of a minimum wage law is unemployment among low-skilled workers (who are usually young). One major reason why the unemployment rate among the young is so high today is because the Democratic Party raised the minimum wage back in 2007 (although, of course, the Depression is partly responsible for the rise in unemployment). The minimum wage harms the people it is claimed to help. Who benefits from the minimum wage? Labor unions, as employers choose to hire union labor rather than unskilled labor due to the high minimum wage (the labor union bosses know exactly what they are doing when they call for higher minimum wages). When the minimum wage is increased, unemployment among the young and the unskilled is higher than it would have otherwise been (if other factors change, unemployment may decrease or stay the same, but it would have been lower if the minimum wage had stayed the same or decreased).

Another example of a delusional economic view is the idea that expanding the amount of money in existence is good for the economy. Due to the law of supply and demand, when the amount of money is expanded, prices are higher than they would have otherwise been. Furthermore, this is not neutral to the market, as the people who get the money first will get it before it loses its purchasing power. As a result, when the Fed runs the printing press, it is taxing the American people by stealth and enriching those who are connected to the government (big banks, defense contractors, politicians etc.) at the expense of the people as a whole. When the new money finds its way to the banks, the banks will give out more loans (which means that they will loan to people who would not have otherwise gotten a loan). The people who take out these loans will invest the money, creating a bubble. The bubble will eventually burst, once the market recognizes that the investments are bad investments and the economy will go into a recession. If politicians let it run its course, the recession will be over in about a year. If not, it lingers, becoming a depression, while the government runs up massive amounts of debt further sabotaging the economy (eventually, the government must either stop or it will bring about a debt crisis, if it inflates out of the debt crisis, it will bring about a currency crisis).

Another example of wishful thinking is with the Democratic Party's "reform" of health insurance. They start by banning "discrimination" based on pre-existing conditions, which forces people who don't have a pre-existing condition to subsidize health insurance for those who do. Then, the Democratic Party proposes to force everybody to purchase health insurance. This will force the young (who don't have much money to begin with) to subsidize health care for their spendthrift Baby Boomer parents (as if the Baby Boomer generation hasn't voted themselves enough welfare benefits at the expense of their children yet). ObamaCare is basically a massive scheme to steal from the young and the healthy to subsidize the middle-aged and the unhealthy (not to mention a bunch of hypochondriacs). The Democrats are actually trying to sell this as a way to reduce health care costs when anybody who understands basic economics would recognize that it will drastically increase health care costs as a whole.

What will it take for people to learn that they cannot get something for nothing? What will it take for them to learn that their "need," no matter how great, does not entitle them to the property of other people?

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My daughters???????????????//?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

My daughters???????????????//?

I ask a question the other night, I have a new question. Here is my story.
I just turned 18 yesterday and tomorrow I am get custody of my 3 nieces. The oldest one is 6, then 4.5 years old. The other one is just a few months old. She was born on Christmas.
Their father died in November and their mother who is my sister died while giving birth on Christmas. Back 2 years ago. My sister asked me if anything happens if I would become the dad (parent) of their kids. I said yes.
My mom and dad are pastors of their church. I have 9 younger siblings. Actually this is my adopted family. They adopted me and my sister when we were little. I have a good job and I am graduating with highest honors from high school. I am getting married. I was only adopted my two youngest nieces. But 5 social works, 3 doctors, my parents believe all 3 should stay with me. I said yes.
These 3 girls are all I have left of my natural family. I love so much. They love calling me dad.
I can't wait until they are my daughters.
I did say the other day that i had 2 nieces. But there is a reason i said two.

My question is where the place to buy GOODNIGHT underpants is or pampers underpants?

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I need relationship advice. help me out?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

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I need relationship advice. help me out?

Okay. I have a friend of mine who Ive known for about 6-7 years now. We dated when we first met but I was really young and messed up the relationship. We've stayed friends but we have had a rocky relationship. I'm in love with him. The love I have has grown stronger over the years, even as we've dated other people and i just cant shake it. Ive tried to get past it and I just can't. I don't think he feels the same way. Can anyone give me advice on what to do here? Thanks.
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What do I do about my boyfriend!?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

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What do I do about my boyfriend!?

So my boyfriend and I have been going out for 14 months and we are happy in our relationship I deff. think/ hope he is the one! We are still kind of young (early 20's) and he wants to finish school and get his masters before taking the next step. Only thing that kind of sucks is we are long distance (5 hr. apart..which isn't that bad) I still live in the town where we grew up and he is going to a University down south (in flippin paradise!!) He really wants me to move in w/ him which I want to but I want a commitment first so I don't get stuck down there if something were to happen.

Anyway the problem here is he comes up to visit maybe once every 1 – 2 months..which it fine I guess..we are both very busy with school. But he is up here now staying at his parents house (which he doesn't really care for, but he can't stay at my house) =/ His mom is one of those who wants him all to herself cause she never gets to see him. (he's an only child. & so am I) I don't mind sharing him but today was my only full day off the whole time he is here and once again his mom wants to take him away from me, I mean he invited me to hang out w/ them but I don't know I figured I should just let his mom have him. =( Also we never really go to my parents house because its boringgg so we are always spending time at his house w/ his parents and never seem to have alone time. His mother is always in the living room with us…Dang I'm just so fed up w/ always being stuck w/ him & his PARENTS. But I don't really know how to tell him that in a nice way were he will not get mad. I guess you can say I'm selfish because I want my boyfriend to my self because I don't get to see him very much! I mean really is that to much to ask for!? Especially on my only day off!! So dang annoyed right now…I could probably go on and on…Please help me! And no stupid mean answers. =)

Thanks in advance!!

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What are my chances of Getting into BYU-Provo?

by on Mar.18, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

What are my chances of Getting into BYU-Provo?

Well I'm attempting to transfer from Rutgers- New Brunswick to Brigham Young University for reasons that outweigh staying at Rutgers University. What are the chances of me getting an acceptance for Summer term with the following criteria on my application:
-Strong recommends
-I'm a recent convert to the church
-H.S. Gpa of 3.63 unweighted. -3 AP classes (about 17 honors classes in my high school career)
-Unique extra currics, spent time aside to teach kids how to swim on saturday mornings. I emphasized service as a part of me because well…that's just who I am and week without service usually leaves an empty hole in me :(
-I only attended one semester at the University level so nothing from college is going to be considered as far as gpa or classes go.
-I speak Spanish , Portuguese, and English.
- 1090 SAT score (24 ACT)
I guess I'm looking for comfort here, but the truth is always better.
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