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cancel t-mobile contract w/o having to pay early termination fee ?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Cancel t-mobile contract w/o having to pay early termination fee ?

here's my situation…i let my younger brother use my cellphone sometimes (big mistake) and he ran up my phone bill to a whooping $300 bucks. i've always been very good at staying within my minutes. anyways, so i have friends telling me that i should switch to metropcs b/c of the $40 plan, which is less than what i currently plan with tmobile.
i've only had tmobile for almost 1 yr, and i think my contract is for 2 years.
another thing is that i don't get good coverage at all. everytime i try calling somebody, the calls doesn't even go thru, and disconnects. i barely get 2 bars, and mostly have that signal icon of the phone with the slash going thru (which basically means no signal at all).
should i just call customer service and say that im moving to a different state where there is no coverage at all?
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Why would he say this?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Why would he say this?

We're both 15, I was at his house today, and he said that this guy at school had shouted at him for apperently saying he was going to split with me after we'd been going out for a year. Which he denies saying. So I said are you? and he said, no. then there was a little silence, and he said to me "Well you don't want to be with me forever do you?" and i sort of said, "murrgh".
He said " you do don't you!" then smiled at me
And I said "nahh, i don't know"
Then he said that i'd had my chance to date other girls and he hadn't, cause before him I had a couple of non serious relationships. But i'm his first proper girlfriend, and I was his first kiss.
So i said "but, what if there doesn't become a reason to split up?"
And he said "then we stay together" but i could tell he doesn't want to.
We've been together for 9 months.
I'm not sure if i should be with this guy if he's not planning on staying with me forever.
I mean, sure, we probably won't last forever, but, when he says it, its like this relationship doesn't mean anything to him. Although he's amazing and we love each other, it, i don't know.
My dad told me to just enjoy it while i'm young, but its hard when now i know he's not planning on styaing with me. I thought people split up for a reason. And when we'd split, i'd be like, i don't know what i'd do, he's my best friend.
Today he kissed my forehead and said "I love you milllions you know" and it made me feel so special, what we have is amazing, but i don't see why he would want to split. I know it sounds like i'm making him stay with me, but he says he loves me, so why would he want to talk about breaking up?
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Going to Brazil in June?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Going to Brazil in June?

Im planning a trip to rio de janeiro in june with a freind. we are staying in ipanema. Im aware that it is winter in brazil during that time. And i was wondering if there would still be people on the beach or are we going to be the only young college people on the beach.Will we still enjoy ourselves.?

Any feedback would be great

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Does he want to split up with me?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Does he want to split up with me?

We're both 15, I was at his house today, and he said that this guy at school had shouted at him for apperently saying he was going to split with me after we'd been going out for a year. Which he denies saying. So I said are you? and he said, no. then there was a little silence, and he said to me "Well you don't want to be with me forever do you?" and i sort of said, "murrgh".
He said " you do don't you!" then smiled at me
And I said "nahh, i don't know"
Then he said that i'd had my chance to date other girls and he hadn't, cause before him I had a couple of non serious relationships. But i'm his first proper girlfriend, and I was his first kiss.
So i said "but, what if there doesn't become a reason to split up?"
And he said "then we stay together" but i could tell he doesn't want to.
We've been together for 9 months.
I'm not sure if i should be with this guy if he's not planning on staying with me forever.
I mean, sure, we probably won't last forever, but, when he says it, its like this relationship doesn't mean anything to him. Although he's amazing and we love each other, it, i don't know.
My dad told me to just enjoy it while i'm young, but its hard when now i know he's not planning on styaing with me. I thought people split up for a reason. And when we'd split, i'd be like, i don't know what i'd do, he's my best friend.
Today he kissed my forehead and said "I love you milllions you know" and it made me feel so special, what we have is amazing, but i don't see why he would want to split. I know it sounds like i'm making him stay with me, but he says he loves me, so why would he want to talk about breaking up?
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Would a Maltese or Yorkie be best for me?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Would a Maltese or Yorkie be best for me?

Living in a NYC apartment, I have already decided I would need a toy breed. I have narrowed my options down to a Yorkie and Maltese (Just off psychical looks). I need help choosing a breed.

A little bit about myself:
1. I live in an apt building.(No yard)
2. My fiance and I have alternating work schedules. (The dog won't be alone for long)
3. We both have easy going personalities and would love a sweeter temperament.
3. I have no problem with daily grooming.
4. I am willing to walk the dog everyday for 30mins.
5. As a first time pet owner, I prefer a dog that is easier to train.
6. They both can be yappy, but which one would be least yappy :)
7. I have younger nieces over quite often.
8. When I travel, the dog must be friendly enough to stay with friends, family, or a doggy daycare.

I have only been around the two breeds while in dog parks. Any help will be greatly appreciated!
Thanks in advance

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Should I just give up on friendships and relationships?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Should I just give up on friendships and relationships?

You're all going to tell me I'm way too young to be thinking about this, but it doesn't change the fact that I am. I'm 18 and in university. I'm now at the point where I believe that I have never had a friend in my entire life. Sure, I had people I hung out with when I was younger, but it never lasted, especially due to all of the family stuff that I was dealing with at home. I would talk to people and they would claim that they love me, but I could always sense that they weren't being completely honest. I always felt they wanted something from me. In grade 10, I completely gave up on people and just started isolating myself. I could hear them talking about me behind my back, saying things like "he's never with anybody" or "that kid scares me", but I didn't care. I was content in my own solitude, not having to depend on others. But it was depressing and lonely. I just didn't connect with anybody. My social anxiety was horrible. Even when I tried, I wouldn't let any of these people get close to me because I just felt they would abandon me anyways. I didn't even bother getting my picture taken for the yearbook in my last year because I didn't want any of these people remembering me.

Then in grade 12, I met one girl, who just so happened to be one of the only people who tried to approach me consistently. She said that she felt comfortable with me and began to open up about herself. Of course, I tried my best to make the friendship work. Unfortunately, this friendship was short lived due to me being fixated on her and her lying to me and always being moody towards me. I had a crush on her, but she said she didn't like me in that way. It just fell apart after that. I tried to be a supportive friend and deal with it, but it was difficult. I tried to stay away to deal with it, but when I came back, she told me I was a negative person and stopped talking to me. It doesn't make any sense because she was the most moody, negative person I ever met.

Anyways, it's now been three months since we talked and I just can't get over it. It's even harder because we have the same classes. She claimed I was one of her closest friends and that she was my family, but she lied to me and used me. Before we stopped talking, she told me that she didn't want me to cut myself off from people because of her. Well, that may just be what I have to do because I put my trust in someone and she let me down. I've put my trust in so many people in the past and all of them let me down. Even my own family has done this to me. Honestly, I've reached a point in my life where I am more comfortable with speaking to people. However, I think I'm on the verge of giving up on friendship. I've tried so hard to be friendly and supportive to people despite my own difficulties, but they just don't care. I don't want to keep putting myself through this garbage. I've met people who seem nice, but I don't want to get close to them or place my trust in them. I just can't do it anymore. I talk with them on a superficial level, but that's it. That's enough to keep me sane. I've been told that we all need people to talk to and depend on, but nobody like that exists in my life. Everyone tells me that keeping my problems to myself is bad for my health. These are also the same people who call me whiny and negative when I try to talk about my problems. I'd rather just depend on myself.

What do you think? Is it pointless to place your trust in others?

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if u can help me with this plz click the star?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

If u can help me with this plz click the star?

well i am 13 and live on the country side of Tennessee. so really do get out that much unless I'm going to school. but i have a bf who is 14 and every night i will let him in my window to hang out and kiss but kissing only. we have talked about the whole not having sex until married . but the other day when we were talking he said the words '' i love you '' at the time i didn't no what to say. because just after my daddy busted in and saw me with him. it was bad he kicked him out the house. and tolded me he was banded from the house and i was grounded. and when every i try to tell him we werent having sex he just got madder . and a day later he came to me and said he was sending me to boot camp. i no times r hard sents my mom died when i was 5 but boot camp come on.my bf and i were thinking about running away but we have nowhere to go. i know we might be young be he loves me and i love him. so how can i got my daddy to let me stay. plz and thxs
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SHOULD I KEEP MY WINDOW OPENED TO MY BF OR IS 13 TO YOUNG FOR THAT STUFF?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

SHOULD I KEEP MY WINDOW OPENED TO MY BF OR IS 13 TO YOUNG FOR THAT STUFF?

well i am 13 and live on the country side of Tennessee. so really do get out that much unless I'm going to school. but i have a bf who is 14 and every night i will let him in my window to hang out and kiss but kissing only. we have talked about the whole not having sex until married . but the other day when we were talking he said the words '' i love you '' at the time i didn't no what to say. because just after my daddy busted in and saw me with him. it was bad he kicked him out the house. and tolded me he was banded from the house and i was grounded. and when every i try to tell him we werent having sex he just got madder . and a day later he came to me and said he was sending me to boot camp. i no times r hard sents my mom died when i was 5 but boot camp come on.my bf and i were thinking about running away but we have nowhere to go. i know we might be young be he loves me and i love him. so how can i got my daddy to let me stay. plz and thxs
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cancer girl with gemini venus?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

Cancer girl with gemini venus?

are these the cheating/manipulative type? I'm dealing with one right now whose incredibly shy and has a hard time opening up to me (taurus with an aries venus) lately because she made a move to asia from the USA. She knows that I'm always there for her, but she seems to be scared of committment. However, I know for a fact that she has met lots of guys at her new school. I know that one is crushing on her, she like the attention, so I have no idea what's happening. While I know her new best friend, a guy, is a really nice guy who has a girlfriend. I've talked to him once through video chatting he seems cool. But the other guy pisses me off. I don't see this girl again until next year and I seem very clingy and considering that all of her guy friends read my messages while she was away on facebook, I feel that she feels embarassed that we even dated in the past. However, she is really nice to me usually and she still stalks me whenever she has the chance to.

I know this is brutally long but this has been going on for years. She becomes brutally shy around me after I initially told her that i really liked her too. (This was 2 years ago, we went out for a few weeks, until she had to move away- lets just say the timing of the move was just flat out horrible. ANd she is also very open and adventurous with her new friends in asia, she has always been a party animal, but always was shy around me. We knew each other for about 4 years now and like the only problem has been that our secret relationship leaked out to some of my friends and she hated the attention). However, she loves attention from guys. She seems friendly with almost every guy she meets. But she doesn't get along with my brother. We both kinda had this one spring break a year or two ago that i sat in her room and we had this conversation and she was always smiling and playing with her hair at me. She is a really boisterous, loud girl that i came to love. But i dont understand how she died down in adventrous and openess with me after we dated. She knows i suffer from a bipolar disorder and ever since then, she's been trying to limit our contact with teach other. According to her best friend, she's scared that i may become abusive to her if we date again when she comes back to the USA

I also found out recently if she wants to move back to the USA, she can only come, same with her younger brothers. Her parents had some issues and can only stay in asia for the rest of their lives. I made a "To do" list to what I have to fix.

But, al in all- do you guys think a girl with gemini venus and in her mid teen years worth the hastle of a long-distance intimiate friendship? I'm going to try to have a romantic summer with her when she comes to visit for a month or so. But should i just ignore a gemini venus? i have heard bad things about that sign.

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My father said he is disappointed in me?

by on Mar.15, 2010, under STAYING YOUNG

My father said he is disappointed in me?

Right now I am on a break from school

I am going to be 19 this year and I don't know what I want to study in Higher Education.

I wanted to do business because I thought that would be fine to study its a neutral subject. I think I just went with it because I have no clue what I want to do.

My father keeps suggesting Law which I do not want to do. He is very adamant that law is the way to go.

So because I am on this break and decided to get a job whilst I figure out what I want to do with my life he told me he is disappointed in me. It really hurts that he said that.

I want to have a career that I am happy with. I was thinking about studying Film, Fashion or Music but I know he will look down on these since they don't have the "prestige" associated with Law or Medicine which he could brag to his friend that his daughter has a degree in.

My mum just says its my life and she will support me anyway I go.

The thing is I don't understand why he has to make a big deal out of it. My parents split up when I was young and he was a weekend dad who I don't have much contact with since I stopped staying there on the weekends.

so thats my story and any advice would be nice

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