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This is my 24 year old daughter's typical, normal day: Wake up and before even brushing her teeth/breakfast, still in bed, FACEBOOK for 15-20 minutes. Then she gets ready and has lunch with her friend and basically stays out with friends doing random, unproductive things to kill time until nighttime so they can go out- coffee, just "hanging out," shopping…
She MIGHT come home for dinner. Then she gets ready to go out – club, bar, whatever. Comes home at 4am, FACEBOOK for 10-15 minutes before falling asleep, and next day, pretty much the same. Right now she works part time and it seems her only goal in life is to make a lot of money so she can live and go out like the girls on that MTV show, The Hills. This is my opinion.

By the way while doing all of the above, or if she's home, it's either facebook or chatting through her Blackberry. I didn't bother her too much about it when she was 21- 22 years old thinking it's just a stage but it hasn't got any better.

I want her to be more self-sufficient and be an "independent woman" but all she cares about is going out, fashion and boys. I would like to mention, she was not like this as a child and high school. She's a smart girl, booksmart and streetsmart. She used to love books and she was a straight A student. Maybe that's why? She's been sheltered, so now she's letting loose?

I try to tell her to read books and stay home sometimes and just be at peace, but she's stubborn and all these things have control of her like a drug. SHE CAN'T STOP. She's checks her phone every 5 minutes while we're talking, having dinner…doesn't matter.

The worse part is ALL OF HER FRIENDS BEHAVE THIS WAY. This facebook thing is outta control! These young, fresh minds are sitting at home looking at photos of friends and people they don't even know. They don't even gossip, they just look at photos of other people partying, traveling…etc.

What is the problem? Help? What should I do? I've tried every approach be she doesn't listen to me. She listens to her friends.

My marriage started off very bad, my last relationship before my husband was really bad lots of domestic violence and I felt that I had to be careful to not freak this man out ever, if he knew that I was talking to another man (my husband now) he would have beat me up and taken our son. Take in my mind at that time in my last relationship, we both lived in different states and I was not with him but I was so scared of him, I had to make him feel that everything was ok, I had to be very discreet, after I was with my husband, my husband was not trusting he knew all about my last relationship I told me. He would call me all kinds of names and was very suspicious; he even had our house set up to record my calls while he was not home. My husband has called me names off and on the whole marriage. After 2 years of marriage we had a fallen out. We have been married for 5 years now he is 45 and I am 30;

About 4 years ago we had a huge fight he called me names, told me to leave, and gave me a little money. I was gone on his doing and my doing, he told me to leave with my young boys and I moved in with my girlfriend. During that time I had went to lunch with someone and he kissed me, I had met this married man a few weeks before me and my husband had our falling out. This man had given me his number a few weeks before our fallen out on a camping trip that the school had for the kids, I was a chaperon so was this man. The next week after the camping trip I went over to my girlfriends and called this man that weekend looking for kindness, support and a male’s point of view about why my husband was the way he is. After I was gone a couple weeks later after that weekend when I first called this man, my husband found out that I was out with this man and filed for divorce. I decided to go back to him to try and make it work. I was gone out of the house and felt like I was not coming back. But my husband still holds on to that and does not trust me. My good friend told me he will never trust you.

About 3 months ago my husband had admitted to putting up a personal add online because he wanted to see what was out there! He paid $100.00 to put up an add on yahoo personals and chat with other women. I was very hurt about that but chose to let it go and still trust him because a marriage can't survive without trust. Why would he want to see whets out there? Is he just not into me? I understand that when I left him I went to lunch with another man and he kissed me but I was gone and we were not together but what he did was while we were together and I thought everything was fine I had no idea he was doing this behind my back. I don't understand why he would do that while he was with me.

Recently I found my male cousin who I grew up with and lived with for years when we were kids, I talk with him daily by phone or text, my husband freaks out, he thinks we have something going on romantically this is sick, why would my husband act this way about my male cousin who is my age and married?

I feel like he has major trust issues and I need that to change in order to stay in this marriage. I am very concerned that our marriage is doomed and I need some advice as to if there is anything I can do to get him to trust me?

I started when I was real young. first a girl then to boys. stayed with boys till I was 19. then did both men and women.
Now Im in a relationship with a wonderful man.

I know im bi and I have no problem with it.

how about you?

My marriage started off very bad, my last relationship before my husband was really bad lots of domestic violence and I felt that I had to be careful to not freak this man out ever, if he knew that I was talking to another man (my husband now) he would have beat me up and taken our son. Take in my mind at that time in my last relationship, we both lived in different states and I was not with him but I was so scared of him, I had to make him feel that everything was ok, I had to be very discreet, after I was with my husband, my husband was not trusting he knew all about my last relationship I told me. He would call me all kinds of names and was very suspicious; he even had our house set up to record my calls while he was not home. My husband has called me names off and on the whole marriage. After 2 years of marriage we had a fallen out. We have been married for 5 years now he is 45 and I am 30;

About 4 years ago we had a huge fight he called me names, told me to leave, and gave me a little money. I was gone on his doing and my doing, he told me to leave with my young boys and I moved in with my girlfriend. During that time I had went to lunch with someone and he kissed me, I had met this married man a few weeks before me and my husband had our falling out. This man had given me his number a few weeks before our fallen out on a camping trip that the school had for the kids, I was a chaperon so was this man. The next week after the camping trip I went over to my girlfriends and called this man that weekend looking for kindness, support and a male’s point of view about why my husband was the way he is. After I was gone a couple weeks later after that weekend when I first called this man, my husband found out that I was out with this man and filed for divorce. I decided to go back to him to try and make it work. I was gone out of the house and felt like I was not coming back. But my husband still holds on to that and does not trust me. My good friend told me he will never trust you.

About 3 months ago my husband had admitted to putting up a personal add online because he wanted to see what was out there! He paid $100.00 to put up an add on yahoo personals and chat with other women. I was very hurt about that but chose to let it go and still trust him because a marriage can't survive without trust. Why would he want to see whets out there? Is he just not into me? I understand that when I left him I went to lunch with another man and he kissed me but I was gone and we were not together but what he did was while we were together and I thought everything was fine I had no idea he was doing this behind my back. I don't understand why he would do that while he was with me.

Recently I found my male cousin who I grew up with and lived with for years when we were kids, I talk with him daily by phone or text, my husband freaks out, he thinks we have something going on romantically this is sick, why would my husband act this way about my male cousin who is my age and married?

I feel like he has major trust issues and I need that to change in order to stay in this marriage. I am very concerned that our marriage is doomed and I need some advice as to if there is anything I can do to get him to trust me?

My marriage started off very bad, my last relationship before my husband was really bad lots of domestic violence and I felt that I had to be careful to not freak this man out ever, if he knew that I was talking to another man (my husband now) he would have beat me up and taken our son. Take in my mind at that time in my last relationship, we both lived in different states and I was not with him but I was so scared of him, I had to make him feel that everything was ok, I had to be very discreet, after I was with my husband, my husband was not trusting he knew all about my last relationship I told me. He would call me all kinds of names and was very suspicious; he even had our house set up to record my calls while he was not home. My husband has called me names off and on the whole marriage. After 2 years of marriage we had a fallen out. We have been married for 5 years now he is 45 and I am 30;

About 4 years ago we had a huge fight he called me names, told me to leave, and gave me a little money. I was gone on his doing and my doing, he told me to leave with my young boys and I moved in with my girlfriend. During that time I had went to lunch with someone and he kissed me, I had met this married man a few weeks before me and my husband had our falling out. This man had given me his number a few weeks before our fallen out on a camping trip that the school had for the kids, I was a chaperon so was this man. The next week after the camping trip I went over to my girlfriends and called this man that weekend looking for kindness, support and a male’s point of view about why my husband was the way he is. After I was gone a couple weeks later after that weekend when I first called this man, my husband found out that I was out with this man and filed for divorce. I decided to go back to him to try and make it work. I was gone out of the house and felt like I was not coming back. But my husband still holds on to that and does not trust me. My good friend told me he will never trust you.

About 3 months ago my husband had admitted to putting up a personal add online because he wanted to see what was out there! He paid $100.00 to put up an add on yahoo personals and chat with other women. I was very hurt about that but chose to let it go and still trust him because a marriage can't survive without trust. Why would he want to see whets out there? Is he just not into me? I understand that when I left him I went to lunch with another man and he kissed me but I was gone and we were not together but what he did was while we were together and I thought everything was fine I had no idea he was doing this behind my back. I don't understand why he would do that while he was with me.
Recently I found my male cousin who I grew up with and lived with for years when we were kids, I talk with him daily by phone or text, my husband freaks out, he thinks we have something going on romantically this is sick, why would my husband act this way about my male cousin who is my age and married?

I feel like he has major trust issues and I need that to change in order to stay in this marriage. I am very concerned that our marriage is doomed and I need some advice as to if there is anything I can do to get him to trust me?

My whole life I've had problems with being awkward around people. When I was younger, I was the weird girl that didn't talk to anyone and dressed funny, the one everyone made fun of. Now at 17, I've changed a lot and have some friends, but not many. I still have cannot seem to get over my awkwardness around people, even my friends. I talk a lot more, smile, and am an attractive person, but every conversation I have ends up being awkward in some way. A lot of people still think of me as that weird girl, so instead I stick to staying at home by myself.

How can I overcome this?

My husband and I have been married 1 year on March 25, he is 19 (20 in August) and I am also 19 (20 in October). We have been together 3 years on March 27th…I know we are young but we have been ttc for 2 years. We have recently started looking into adoption, because we feel that we are ready for that next step in our life. He is in the Army and I am a stay at home wife. We live in Germany right now. The only countries that will let us adopt is Croatia and Scotland…but it could take up to 3 years for that. So does anyone have any information on private adoption or a site where mothers look for adoptive couples?

Thanks in advance for the help

thanks in advance for reading this… it will be EXTREMELY LONG!!

im a 21 year old with 2 boys older son is 21 months and younger son is 5 weeks old. i am a stay at home mother and my husband works full time.

my 21 month old son seems to be out of control. He hardly listens when i say no!!.. we went to my younger cousins 5th birthday party today and my son was just out of it. when we arrived there were a bunch of kids sitting in the lounge room watching hi 5. i told my son to sit down and take his shoes off and watch tv like the other kids. He did as told for about 2 minutes then he got up and started to turn off the tv and play with the dvd player and sound system i told him no and he stopped. When i turned my back he started again so my mother took him outside and fed him some dinner. After dinner he came inside again and did the same thing also this time playing with the house phone wen told no he would still do it this time he wouldnt back away we had to grab him and take him outside to where myself and other s were sitting so i could keep an eye on him. i told him to sit down which he refused and kept trying to go back inside and play with the tv. there were plenty of other kids but he didnt even look at them he didnt want to seem to play with them even his own uncles and aunts (who are 5 and 10) and he knows them well. then it came to cake time!! everybody elses kid stood around and sang while mine was trying to poke at the cake and steal the cutlery to play with!! as everyone got a slice of cake they all sat down next to their mothers and ate but my boy was running around touching things AGAIn and my grandmother was chasing him around and feeding him and telling him to sit down (i was feeding bub). i feel so embarrased everyone was just looking at my son as a spoilt brat and loooking down on me so badly. im at the verge of crying right now!!

wen i gave birth he had my mother, brother, dad, grandmother and plenty of my aunties coming over daily to look after him for about 2 weeks and his behaviour was just so bad he didnt listen to anyone didnt eat and would chuck a fit!! before this he never would have a fit!! i know bcoz he wasnt the only one in the house anymore but once i was better and didnt need other people over daily he started to return to his normal self again. but since about 2 days ago he has started to act like he did when i gave birth i even managed to teach him to say thank u and where rubbish goes but now all that is gone!!.. i know he touched things at the birthday party bcoz our house is pretty much 80% baby proof and everything is out of reach so he would have been excited to touch.. i mean we have a gate to block him off from the kitchen and every few days he gets in there he is so happy. he also likes to play with remotes and phones and things so now when im done using these things i put them up high out of his sight to avoid any tantrums.. i have him on a waiting list at a early learning centre for when he turns 2 but now im going to look at other places he can go to. to learn to share and play with other kids his age. also earlier today we went to the mall and he had a tantrum to get out of the parm so we let him loose and he was so happy to be running around i mean i cant blame him i wouldnt want to be locked up either so i was discussing with my husband that every 2 weeks we should take him to the kids play land so he can play with other kids and take any frustration from being at home all week out at the play land.. does this seem like a good idea??..

No harsh comments please im stressed out and upset as enough as it is!! any advice suggestions would be great!! thanks again

ASKM.Its a family problem well. we r a family of 5 consisting of my mom , dad, my sister, my grandma [maternal] & me.my dad stays in other place nd we in a different one.my parents r working. so by ALLAH'S grace we dont have any financial problem.my grandma also gets her pension.we r a middle class family.i hav done my undergraduation & my sister is in higher secondary.Now my dad's elder brother has 2 sons & 2 daughters.they are not soooo well to do financially.but by ALLAH'S grace they can spend their livelyhood.but his girls r very fashionable.they showoff. we r not bothered abt it. one among the two has got a job in my place. they did it wantingly because they knew it we r here nd 2 support her.she shall earn 12,000 per month but still they dont want 2 spend for her stay.they want her to stay in my home.it is confirmed that they dont shoulder any financial support of their daughter with us.k ths should till when? this girl will not help out us in any household chores. my mom is also a working lady.she is even growing older.she cant do the work as she used to in her younger days.this girl will only dress up & sit.thats it.now how to deny them. i feel that whether i am going against islam which preaches 2 help? even these girls marriage should be done by my dad only. my dad is not understanding that still his own daughters have to be settled in life.he had helped his other brothers & sisters financially.they dont care abt him now & he feels for this too. well fine we dont expect anything from them. if my mom questions anything about my dad's salary he clearly tells that what is she doing with her salary. my mom does a lot for us. i dont know how to convince my dad. well i need help in the light of islam.

Its going to contain sex, drugs and violence etc so for s (:
Male: his life is messed up and his only 'job' is getting and selling drugs for clients. Suddenly whilst at a party dealing loads of drugs to drunk teenagers everything goes wrong and the cops are on the way. He quickly escapes in his car not knowing that a young girl is asleep in the back of the car passed out. He stops for fuel and sees the girl that he has adores and is highly attracted too. She comes around and he tells her about how the party went wrong and says that he thinks the cops know his name and are after him.. He knows that he can't go back and will have to stay on the run but he doesnt want to do it alone so he lies to the girl and says that she can't go back etheir just so she'll stay with him.

Idea for a story name? (: